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Thursday, May 23, 2013

"Pastors' Wives" by Lisa Takeuchi Cullen


What's it like when the man you married is already married to God? asks Pastors' Wives, an often surprising yet always emotionally true first novel set in a world most of us know only from the outside.

Lisa Takeuchi Cullen's debut novel Pastors' Wives follows three women whose lives converge and intertwine at a Southern evangelical megachurch. Ruthie follows her Wall Street husband from New York to Magnolia, a fictional suburb of Atlanta, when he hears a calling to serve at a megachurch called Greenleaf. Reeling from the death of her mother, Ruthie suffers a crisis of faith---in God, in her marriage, and in herself. Candace is Greenleaf's "First Lady," a force of nature who'll stop at nothing to protect her church and her superstar husband. Ginger, married to Candace's son, struggles to play dutiful wife and mother while burying her calamitous past. All their roads collide in one chaotic event that exposes their true selves. Inspired by Cullen's reporting as a staff writer for Time magazine, Pastors' Wivesis a dramatic portrayal of the private lives of pastors' wives, caught between the demands of faith, marriage, duty, and love.

I've been thinking and thinking about how to describe this book.  Tossing words around in my mind for several weeks.  I'm still not sure how to do it.

Pastors' Wives is amazingly well written. It's a tightly-woven story of several families all connected to pastors and how they handle the pressures and stresses of always being the public specter, of how much of a leadership role they really play in their respective churches.  The details spring each character to life and the large cast of characters keep the story interesting.  The drama happening inside the church reads like a soap opera (as I imagine it often does in real life), and you won't be bored with this story.

Unlike many of today's popular novels, Cullen's writing sounds formal and a bit distant.  It took me a few chapters to switch gears mentally into this style of writing, but I appreciate the excellent quality of her work.  Nobody could claim that this is a watered-down piece of literature.

I appreciate how one of the biggest problems was resolved in the end, but the ending for another left me disappointed.  Not because it wasn't realistic, because it may be, but because I didn't feel as if it offered any encouragement or hope for readers.  Life is not perfect and we don't always get the happy ending that we want, but in this case, I felt as if the characters made a poor choice and that it was considered acceptable.  That attitude left a bad taste in my mouth where this book is concerned.

So with that said, I'm still not sure what to say about this book.  Because of the questionable ending, I won't be passing this book along to anyone who may be in a similar situation.  If you're strong in your faith journey, however, and you appreciate quality literature, you might really enjoy Pastors' Wives.

To read other reviews of this book, click here.  Go here to purchase your own copy.


Lisa Takeuchi Cullen was a longtime staff writer for TIME magazine. She now develops TV pilots for production companies and recently sold her first pilot for "The Ordained" to CBS. Born in Japan, Cullen lives in New Jersey with family.
Find out more about Lisa at http://lisacullen.com. 

I received a free copy of Pastors' Wives from LitFuse Publicity in exchange for an honest review.

"Ray of Light" by Shelley Shepard Gray


Bestselling author Shelley Shepard Gray brings inspirational romance to life in this sweet tale of love in the Amish community, Ray of Light, the second installment of her Days of Redemption series.

Roman Keim just wants a break from the family drama at his snowy Ohio home when he heads to an Amish snowbird community in Florida. There he meets Amanda Yoder and her daughter Regina who soon are warming his heart. But will Roman return to Ohio or will he stay and help the young widow embrace a second chance at love?
The author of the series Sisters of the Heart and Seasons of Sugarcreek, Shelley Shepard Gray delivers an honest, tender love story in Ray of Light, featuring the challenges of faith, family, and romance.

Shelley Shepard Gray has penned another winner. I love her books for the reality of the characters, and Ray of Light is no exception.  Most of the events of this book could happen to anyone; they are real, ordinary problems that any of us could have - except Gray's characters are Amish, adding another layer of interest to an already fascinating story.

When my truck-driving grandfather retired, he bought a van and set himself up as an Amish taxi driver.  He spent his days driving people around, from work to errands to home, and had loads of friends and stories to match.  He once drove some Amish to Florida to stay in an 'Amish resort' there, and I've been interested in the idea ever since.

That's how Gray opens this story - with Amish from the North on vacation in sunny Florida, and while no special resort is mentioned, the idea is intriguing.  The Keim family is from a much more progressive sect than the Amish I grew up near, but reading about work schedules and vacation dreams and love triangles reminds me that they are people just like us.  With foreign missionaries, multiple family weddings, cross-country vacations, rehab, and dark family secrets, they're certainly busier than my family!

Ray of Light is the second in this series, but while I haven't read it, it was not difficult to pick up on the characters or the past that was disclosed in the first book.  That doesn't stop me from wanting to read it, however; I think reading the books in the wrong order actually makes me want to read that first one even more, and the same is true for the third.  I can't wait to find out what happens to them!

I hope you can type like lightening, Mrs. Gray, because I can't wait to read the next installment of the Keim's lives.

You can see other reviews from this bloggy hop here, or click here to purchase your own copy now.


Shelley Shepard Gray is the New York Times and USA Today bestselling author of the "Sisters of the Heart", "Seasons of Sugarcreek", "Secrets of Crittenden County", and Families of Honor series. She lives in southern Ohio, where she writes full-time, bakes too much, and can often be found walking her dachshunds on her town's bike trail.



I received a free copy of Ray of Light from LitFuse Publicity in exchange for an honest review.

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

10 Ways to Make Your Sick Child More Comfortable

We've all been there.  Your child gets sick, and no matter how much you want to change that, you can't.  

We can make them more comfortable, at least.  Here are some of the things we're doing during our current bout of chicken pox to survive our week of quarantine in style

10.  Hold a pajamas day.  My kids cheered this morning when I announced that they could remain in their PJs all day.  We usually have somewhere to be at some point during the day, and so they have to get dressed.  Being in their PJs automatically makes them feel more relaxed.

9.  Take a bubble bath.  Your child's condition might mean a hot bath is best, or maybe a cool one could sooth a fever, but either way, being clean just makes everything better.  It never hurts to have some bubbles or some water playtime, either.

8.  Throw the family schedule out the window.  Your kids might be ready to eat or sleep at different times.  They might not be up for any schoolwork.  It's okay - it's not forever.

7.  Throw YOUR schedule out the window, too.  When my kids are sick, I always feel as if I must do double-time to take care of the sick person AND keep up with my usual chores, but in reality, the only really important thing is the person.  The dust or laundry can wait - chances are, it'll still be there when my child is well, but I only have this time to comfort them.

6.  Play a game.  Even though we spend most of our time at home, we don't get to play together as much as we'd like.  This is a great time to remedy that when the sick one is up for it!

5.  Make your own snow-cones.  Right now my kids have incredibly sore throats, and it's changing their appetites.  Since their tummies are steady, though, they can eat whatever they want.  This is a great time to crush some ice, add some juice, and let the cool juice sooth the pain.

4.  Break out that craft or project you've been putting off.  When My Big Helper got the flu a few months ago, the first thing that she wanted to do was a new mosaic project.    I wasn't sure she'd be able to handle being up yet, but she was determined to finish it.  When she played out, we'd set it aside and pick it up later.    You can do this same thing - if it's a big project that is wanted, try it out and set it aside as need be. 

3.  Go for some snuggle time.  One of my kids is a snuggler and the other isn't, but when they're sick, they both want to settle into my lap and stay there.  Set aside what you're doing and snuggle - it won't be long before they're back to normal, and they won't want any ,ore snuggle time.  Take advantage of it.

2.  Watch a special movie.  It might be an old favorite or one from the to-be-watched list, but spread out a blanket and grab the remote.  Movies, when chosen wisely, are great for escaping reality and making life feel fun.

1.  Read together.  Your kids might be able to read whatever they want, but they'll still appreciate snuggling close and listening to a favorite or new story.  

What would you add to this list??

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Deeanne Gist’s “It Happened at the Fair” iPad Giveaway and Live Webcast Event {5/22}!

Deeanne Gist is celebrating the release of It Happened at the Fair with an iPad Mini Giveaway and a Live Author Chat Webcast event {5/22}!

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  One "fair" winner will receive:
  • An iPad Mini
  • A $25 iTunes gift card
Enter today by clicking one of the icons below. But hurry, the giveaway ends on May 21st. Winner will be announced at the "It Happened at the Fair" Live Webcast Event on May 22nd. Connect with Deeanne for an evening of book chat, trivia, laughter, and more! Deeanne will also be taking questions from the audience and giving away books and fun gift certificates throughout the evening.

So grab your copy of It Happened at the Fair and join Deeanne and friends on the evening of May 22nd for a chance to connect and make some new friends. (If you haven't read the book, don't let that stop you from coming!)

Don't miss a moment of the fun; RSVP today. Tell your friends via FACEBOOK or TWITTER and increase your chances of winning. Hope to see you on the 22nd!

GratiTuesday - Chicken Pox Craziness



A few days after we returned from Pennsylvania, the kids began coughing in the middle of the night.  During the day, it didn't seem like a very big deal - it's just a cough, right?  But at one in the morning, when both kids were coughing and coughing, so very hard, I felt very helpless.

After hearing one wheeze, we dug out their inhalers, and they helped, but the coughing continued.  My Little Man, who usually sleeps so well and long, has been awake late at night and up impossibly early, so I was excited yesterday when he slept in.  Maybe he's finally getting better, I thought, and questioned my decision to take them to the doctor.  After all, it wouldn't be the first time that I got derided for what was deemed a 'silly' visit.

Then My Big Helper saw squirrels heading into her squirrel mansion, and she came running to get me.  As we sat on the couch together, watching a squirrel go in and out of his hole as if he were a kid caught in a revolving door, I noticed a few small spots on her cheek.  

It didn't take much further investigation to find that her top half was covered with these strange red spots.  Some raised, some not, some big, some small, they were everywhere - and I immediately called the doctor.

Surprisingly, we were able to get right in, and soon the doctor was walking through the door, asking what was wrong.  I felt silly saying that both kids had bad coughs, especially when they didn't really appear to be having any problems, but something just didn't feel right.

It wasn't.

Those strange spots are the final manifestation of atypical chicken pox - yes, the CHICKEN POX.  Who gets those anymore?  

The kids have been vaccinated, and the doctor assured me that we should be in for a mild case.  He explained that chicken pox is a respiratory virus, which explains the coughing - the kids have the blisters in their throats, which is making it harder to breathe.

Besides these very sore throats, they don't feel all that bad.  They spent the afternoon playing in the playroom, doing crafts, painting together, and making plans for a movie - which they ran out of time to watch.  They lost their spots, too - My Big Helper was spot-free by bedtime.

The spots have reappeared in new places this morning, and they're itchy, but judging from My Big Helper's current fascination with her squirrels and their house, I don't think it's bothering her too much. My Little Man woke up hours early coughing, but after a dose of medicine and some snuggle time, he's moved on to a stack of books.

As much as I hate to see the kids sick, and although I'm quite shocked at this diagnosis, I'm rather glad.  This means that their allergies are not worse as I feared.  This means that we have no new infections to further weaken their lungs.  This means that it will run its course without major issues.  This means that while life might be a bit hectic for the next few days, and while we might have to miss out on some playtime with friends while we're quarantined, we're still handling the current allergy issues well and will be able to be back outside soon.

Who knew the crazy old chicken pox could be such a good thing?

While I'm happy to have such a simple diagnosis, we do still have to stay inside for the next several days.  What do your kids like to do when they're sick?  I'd love to hear your ideas!

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Monday, May 20, 2013

"Catch a Falling Star" by Beth K. Vogt



What does a girl do when life doesn't go according to her plan? 

At 36, Kendall Haynes has seen some of her dreams come true. She's a family physician helping kids with severe allergies and asthma achieve more fulfilling lives-a childhood struggle she knows all too well. But the feeling of being "the kid never picked" looms large when romance continues to evade her and yet another one of her closest friends gets engaged. Are Kendall's dreams of having it all-a career, a husband, children-nothing more than childish wishing upon a star? Should she hold out for her elusive Plan A? Dust off Plan B? Or is it time to settle? God says he knows the plans he has for her-why can't Kendall figure them out and be content with her life?
Griffin Walker prefers flying solo-both as an Air Force pilot and in his personal life. But a wrong choice and health problems pulled him out of the cockpit. His attempts to get out of "flying a desk" are complicated by his parents' death-making Griffin the reluctant guardian of his sixteen-year-old brother, Ian. How did his life get so off course? Can God get his life back on track ... or has there been a divine plan all along?

Catch a Falling Star reminds readers that romance isn't just for twenty-somethings and that sometimes letting go of your "wish I may, wish I might" dreams is the only way to embrace everything God has waiting for you.

Catch A Falling Star is the very best kind of fairy tale - the kind that could be real.  When my daughter was born, I saw princess decor everywhere and decided I didn't want her to think that her dreams would all fall in her lap.  It rarely works that way.  Happily-ever-afters require compromise and hard work and understanding, but above all, they require knowing that it's not our own plans that matter most, but God's, and He has a happy ending for everyone who trusts Him with it.  That  is the very best feature of this book:  the coming to terms and reality of the happily-ever-after.  This is what I want to teach my daughter.

I enjoyed the intertwining of the characters' stories, as well.  From a teen, a divorced man, a single woman, and a mommy-wanna-be, the perspectives told were believable and varied.  The way that their plots intersected so that each character learned from another and was able to be helpful was well planned and added a great layer of depth.

Catch A Falling Star isn't a fluffy fairy tale but a real-life romance full of dreams and trust. It should definitely go on your summer reading list.

To read other reviews on this bloggy tour,click here.  You can purchase this book here.


Beth K. Vogt is a non-fiction author and editor who said she'd never write fiction. She's the wife of an Air Force family physician (now in solo practice), though she said she'd never marry a doctor-or anyone in the military. She's a mom of four, though she said she'd never have kids. She's discovered that God's best often waits behind the doors marked "Never." Her contemporary romance novel, "Wish You Were Here", debuted in May 2012 (Howard Books), and "Catch a Falling Star" releases May 2013. An established magazine writer and former editor of Connections, the leadership magazine for MOPS International, Beth is also the Skills Coach for My Book Therapy, the writing community founded by best-selling author Susan May Warren. 

Find out more about Beth K. at http://bethvogt.com.

I received a free copy of Catch a Falling Star from LitFuse Publicity in exchange for an honest review.

Menu Plan Monday - May 20, 2103

What a crazy week it has been!  We're heading into the homestretch now, though - we have few things on our calendar for this week, except for the end of our school year.  We're planning to move slowly through this week and to enjoy lots of downtime.  You?

Breakfast:
- scrambled eggs and cantaloupe



- fresh strawberries and yogurt with Cinnamon Almond Granola
- Applesauce muffins, fruit


- Blueberry Biscuits, fruit

Dinner:

- Cheesy Chicken Taquitos, salad
- meatloaf, baked potatoes, salad, applesauce
- tacos, Spanish rice, salad, fruit
- Barbecue chicken pizza, salad, strawberry shortcake
- grilled chicken salad, whole wheat bread, brownies


- breakfast for dinner
- leftovers

What are you cooking up this week?

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